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"Becoming Real: A Philosophical Journey of Wear and Tear"

 





Today, let's embark on a philosophical journey inspired by the timeless words of the Velveteen Rabbit:

"You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept."

So, grab a cup of your favorite brew and let's delve into the profound wisdom hidden in the simplicity of becoming real.

The Patina of Time

Life has a way of shaping us, molding us into versions of ourselves that only time can reveal.

Much like the Velveteen Rabbit, we accumulate experiences that leave their mark on us – our own patina of time.

It's in the creases of our smiles, the lines etched by laughter and sorrow, that we truly become Real.

These aren't imperfections; they're the brushstrokes of a masterpiece in progress.

Love as the Transformative Force

The Velveteen Rabbit mentions, "by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off."

Love, in its various forms, is the transformative force that shapes us. Whether it's the love of others or self-love, it has the power to strip away the superficial layers, revealing the authentic core beneath.

Love is the catalyst for our journey towards authenticity.

Eyes that See Beyond the Surface

"Your eyes drop out," says the wise rabbit. This isn't a literal loss of vision but a metaphorical shedding of superficial judgments.

Realness comes when we learn to see beyond appearances, beyond societal expectations.

It's about cultivating a vision that recognizes the beauty within, transcending the limitations of physicality.

Embracing Vulnerability

To be Real is to be vulnerable. Like the Velveteen Rabbit, we become loose in the joints and very shabby.

Embracing vulnerability means accepting that life will wear us down, and that's okay. It's in our vulnerabilities that we find strength, resilience, and a connection with the shared human experience.

The Unseen Beauty

"Once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."

Realness transcends conventional standards of beauty. It's about authenticity, depth, and a beauty that lies in the unseen, in the stories etched into the fabric of our being.

Those who don't understand may miss the beauty of a Real soul.

So, my fellow wanderers in the realm of thought, let's embrace the journey of becoming Real.

Let's cherish the wear and tear, for it is through the cracks that the light of authenticity shines. As we navigate the complexities of life, let's remember the wisdom of the Velveteen Rabbit – that in becoming Real, we attain a beauty that goes beyond the surface.

So, go ahead, let life love off your hair and drop out your eyes – because once you are Real, you're a masterpiece in the making.



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